1. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
2. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
3. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
4. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
5. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
6. I am turned on by the idea of my partner being sexually available to me and following what I want.
7. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
8. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.
9. Causing pain arouses me.
10. The fantasy of a scene involving physical force or resistance causes erotic arousal for me.
11. It is important to me to see my partner with someone else rather than be in separate rooms.
12. I like peeing on others.
13. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
14. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
15. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
16. I am drawn to the role of the third person added to an already existing dynamic.
17. I find it very appealing when my “no” is deliberately ignored as part of a scenario, as long as I know there is a safeword to stop everything.
18. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
19. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
20. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I serve my partner and show devotion through my role.
21. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
22. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
23. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
24. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
25. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
26. I would not mind experimenting with many people.
27. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
28. I am generally drawn to the idea of swinging.
29. I could enjoy an experience even if I were watching more than participating.
30. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me regularly, with clear roles between us.
31. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
32. I like receiving a golden shower.
33. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
34. I would feel more comfortable with a softer swap than with full sexual intercourse.
35. I would feel comfortable with touching and a softer swap, but not with full sexual intercourse.
36. I would be interested in full partner swapping.
37. I can imagine my partner with someone else without being overwhelmed by jealousy.
38. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
39. I could see such an experience as something we share rather than something threatening.
40. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
41. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
42. When I trust my person completely, I feel free to explore more extreme or darker kinds of play.
43. I am drawn to the idea of group erotic play.
44. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
45. The idea that my partner may enjoy a third person more than me arouses me.
46. Softer and more classic erotic experiences suit me more than more extreme scenarios.
47. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
48. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
49. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
50. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
51. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
52. The idea of feeling erotically inferior to a third person within an agreed setting arouses me.
53. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
54. I would be interested in exploring swinging with my partner.
55. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
56. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
57. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
58. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
59. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
60. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
61. I would like to take part in a setting with more than one couple.
62. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
63. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
64. Full erotic contact and swapping with another couple would not bother me.
65. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I take the submissive role and my partner has control, with clear roles between us.
66. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
67. At a couples’ erotic party, I would prefer to attend alone rather than together with my partner.
68. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
69. The shared atmosphere with another couple attracts me even without partner swapping.
70. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
71. I am attracted to participating as a third person in a couple’s erotic experience.
72. The idea of entering the private space of a couple, knowing that my presence would elevate their experience, arouses me.
73. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
74. I am drawn to it when my partner shares details with me about a more intense experience with someone else.
75. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
76. I am drawn to a relationship with rules, roles, and a clear structure.
77. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
78. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
79. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
80. I would feel more comfortable in a shared erotic setting if I stayed only with my partner.
81. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
82. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
83. Humiliating or degrading my partner in an agreed context arouses me.
84. I would feel comfortable taking a role where I satisfy one of the two partners while the other watches or participates.
85. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
86. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
87. I like being given instructions during sex and letting my partner guide me.
88. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
89. I find the idea of being the center of attention, with two or more partners focusing on my pleasure, very appealing.
90. At first, I would prefer a softer experience rather than a full one.
91. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
92. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where my partner takes the submissive role and I have control, with clear roles between us.
93. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
94. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
95. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
96. I would prefer clear limits in a softer swap, without full sexual intercourse.
97. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
98. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
99. I am drawn to the idea of having sex only with my partner while another couple does the same in the same room.
100. If there were trust and clear limits, I would be interested in full swap.
