1. I would like to take part in a setting with more than one couple.
2. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
3. I am drawn to the feeling of my partner belonging very deeply to me.
4. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
5. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
6. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.
7. The idea of feeling erotically inferior to a third person within an agreed setting arouses me.
8. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
9. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
10. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
11. Full erotic contact and swapping with another couple would not bother me.
12. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
13. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
14. It is important to me to see my partner with someone else rather than be in separate rooms.
15. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
16. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
17. I find it very appealing when my “no” is deliberately ignored as part of a scenario, as long as I know there is a safeword to stop everything.
18. I would prefer clear limits in a softer swap, without full sexual intercourse.
19. I would feel comfortable taking a role where I satisfy one of the two partners while the other watches or participates.
20. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
21. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
22. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
23. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
24. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
25. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
26. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
27. I am drawn to the idea of having sex only with my partner while another couple does the same in the same room.
28. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
29. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me regularly, with clear roles between us.
30. Humiliating or degrading my partner in an agreed context arouses me.
31. I am drawn to the feeling of belonging very deeply to my partner.
32. I am turned on by caring for, guiding, and spoiling my partner during erotic play.
33. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
34. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
35. I like receiving a golden shower.
36. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
37. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
38. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
39. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
40. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.
41. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
42. I am generally drawn to non-monogamous dynamics.
43. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
44. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
45. The idea of entering the private space of a couple, knowing that my presence would elevate their experience, arouses me.
46. The shared atmosphere with another couple attracts me even without partner swapping.
47. I would feel comfortable with touching and a softer swap, but not with full sexual intercourse.
48. I am drawn to the role of the third person added to an already existing dynamic.
49. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
50. If there were trust and clear limits, I would be interested in full swap.
51. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
52. I like my partner speaking to me as if I hold a higher position in our relationship.
53. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
54. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
55. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
56. I would feel more comfortable in a shared erotic setting if I stayed only with my partner.
57. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
58. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
59. At first, I would prefer a softer experience rather than a full one.
60. I would be interested in full partner swapping.
61. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
62. I would not mind experimenting with many people.
63. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
64. The idea that my partner may enjoy a third person more than me arouses me.
65. I am attracted to participating as a third person in a couple’s erotic experience.
66. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
67. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
68. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
69. An erotic experience with another couple sounds appealing to me.
70. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
71. I believe such an experience could bring us closer as a couple.
72. I could enjoy an experience even if I were watching more than participating.
73. I find the idea of being the center of attention, with two or more partners focusing on my pleasure, very appealing.
74. I am drawn to learning specific submissive postures or rituals.
75. Causing pain arouses me.
76. I would feel more comfortable with a softer swap than with full sexual intercourse.
77. I am turned on by speaking to my partner with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates them during erotic play.
78. I am drawn to the idea of group erotic play.
79. At a couples’ erotic party, I would prefer to attend alone rather than together with my partner.
80. I am drawn to it when my partner shares details with me about a more intense experience with someone else.
81. I am drawn to being in the role of the person who receives verbal degradation or psychological control, within a clearly agreed context.
82. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
83. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
84. Softer and more classic erotic experiences suit me more than more extreme scenarios.
85. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
86. I would be interested in exploring swinging with my partner.
87. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
88. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
89. The idea of not having a say in when or how sex begins arouses me, as long as I have given my consent in advance.
90. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
91. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
92. I am drawn to roleplay between adults where there is resistance, but everything has been agreed in advance.
93. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
94. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
95. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
96. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
97. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
98. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
99. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
100. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
