1. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
2. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
3. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
4. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
5. After an intense erotic experience, it is important for me that there is care and calm.
6. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
7. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
8. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
9. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
10. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
11. I like my partner speaking to me as if I hold a higher position in our relationship.
12. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
13. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
14. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
15. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
16. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where my partner takes the submissive role and I have control, with clear roles between us.
17. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
18. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me regularly, with clear roles between us.
19. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
20. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
21. I am drawn to fully letting go with my partner in that moment.
22. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
23. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
24. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
25. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
26. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
27. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
28. I can enjoy an intense scenario of resistance or surrender, as long as there are clear limits, a safeword, and full prior agreement.
29. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.
30. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
31. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
32. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
33. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
34. I find it very appealing when my “no” is deliberately ignored as part of a scenario, as long as I know there is a safeword to stop everything.
35. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
36. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
37. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
38. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
39. I like the idea of being in the role of the one who degrades or psychologically controls the other person, always with boundaries and consent.
40. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
41. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where my partner serves me and shows devotion through their role.
42. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
43. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
44. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
45. I like being the one who decides what happens during erotic play and guiding my partner.
46. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
47. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
48. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
49. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
50. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
51. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
52. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
53. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
54. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
55. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
56. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
57. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.
58. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
59. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
60. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
61. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
62. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
63. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
64. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
65. I like receiving a golden shower.
66. I am drawn to submitting to my partner regularly, with clear roles between us.
67. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
68. I am turned on by caring for, guiding, and spoiling my partner during erotic play.
69. Causing pain arouses me.
70. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
71. The fantasy of a scene involving physical force or resistance causes erotic arousal for me.
72. I like peeing on others.
