1. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
2. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
3. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
4. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
5. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
6. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
7. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
8. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
9. I am drawn to the idea of surrendering so deeply to my partner that, within the scene, they can do whatever they want with me, as if I were their slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
10. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
11. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
12. I am turned on by caring for, guiding, and spoiling my partner during erotic play.
13. I like peeing on others.
14. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
15. The idea of not having a say in when or how sex begins arouses me, as long as I have given my consent in advance.
16. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
17. I like the idea of being in the role of the one who degrades or psychologically controls the other person, always with boundaries and consent.
18. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
19. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
20. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
21. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
22. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
23. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
24. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
25. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
26. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
27. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
28. After an intense erotic experience, it is important for me that there is care and calm.
29. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
30. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
31. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I take the submissive role and my partner has control, with clear roles between us.
32. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
33. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
34. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
35. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
36. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
37. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
38. The feeling of physically imposing myself on my partner arouses me.
39. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
40. I am drawn to being in the role of the person who receives verbal degradation or psychological control, within a clearly agreed context.
41. Causing pain arouses me.
42. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
43. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
44. Sending erotic photos or videos of myself arouses me.
45. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
46. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where my partner serves me and shows devotion through their role.
47. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
48. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
49. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
50. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
51. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I serve my partner and show devotion through my role.
52. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
53. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
54. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
55. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
56. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
57. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
58. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
59. I am drawn to the feeling of my partner belonging very deeply to me.
60. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
61. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
62. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
63. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
64. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
65. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
66. The idea of fully surrendering my body to the other person for a specific time, without needing to approve every move, excites me.
67. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
68. I am drawn to constantly trying new things in my erotic life.
69. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
70. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
71. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
72. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
